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Before we dive into our tantalizing guide on how to finger yourself, there are a few essentials we need to cover. Think of this as the prep work before the main event. Trust me, it’s worth the extra minutes. Fingering Hygiene is Crucial

Maybe you, like me, don’t enjoy direct touch on the most sensitive parts of your genitals. So try touching around those parts. Try putting pressure on your perineum (the bit of skin between your anus and other genitals). Try gently pulling on your labia or gently experimenting with direct anal play. Experiment with different strokes, speed, and pressure, adjusting according to whatever feels best to you.

In terms of bleeding, there’s a slight chance that if the hymen does tear, it could bleed a very small amount. But it probably won’t—there’s typically not a whole lot of blood flow to the hymen. A big reason why someone might finger themselves is for pleasure! Some people like the feeling of fullness in their vagina while they stimulate the clitoris during masturbation. The outer third of the vagina is full of sensitive nerve endings, and you’ll be touching this when you finger yourself. Yes, you can. This may feel less awkward than using your finger or allow you new sensations and positions. However, here are three essential guidelines to follow to safely penetrate yourself with objects: You also might not be feeling any discomfort, but just feeling “meh.” Maybe you looked for the G-spot but you can’t find it, or you just generally think it feels fine but not especially pleasurable. This is pretty normal— most women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, but also require clitoral stimulation. Don’t feel like there’s anything wrong with you if just penetration isn’t terribly exciting for you. Relish every touch, every sensation. After your session, take a moment to reflect on the pleasure you experienced.

A hands-free orgasm is when you have a sexual climax without using hands. As long as you are not using your hands to stimulate your body, it is considered hands-free. This type of orgasm can be achieved solo or with a partner. We have already discussed the fact that the hymen doesn’t really break—it stretches, or it might tear. Is this painful? Not usually. The stretching can be uncomfortable, or you may feel a slight stinging, burning, or tearing sensation. But hymen stretching and/or tearing is generally not going to cause stabbing pain or agony. We’re huge fans of sex toys for their positive impact on your physical and mental health, but we know it can be tough to juggle holding a vibrator and getting turned on (especially if you have issues with dexterity). Fortunately, the best hands-free sex toys do the work for you, leaving you free to focus on feeling good. Firstly, begin by caressing your whole body. Those thighs? Give them some love. Gentle strokes, moving upwards, circling around your breasts – you do you. While it’s often assumed that anal sex is an act that must take place between two people, the reality is that we can often experience anal sex alone – and enjoy it. Any act of masturbation is an act of giving yourself pleasure, so this naturally applies to anal play too.’

Step 3: Lube Up (If Necessary)

If you’re looking for an explosive orgasm, the squatting position is the one to try. Squatting makes it easier for you to locate your G-spot, which is about 2 to 3 inches inside your vaginal canal. Wash them thoroughly and keep those fingernails short and neat. After all, we’re aiming for pleasure, not a bacterial party.